I want you not to interpret Jealousy as Admiration, many often, you will think s-he admires you, not knowing that s-he is jealous of you. AS ODD AS IT MAY SOUND, those who are secretly jealous of you are secret agents; they spy on what you do, extract intelligence that will sabotage your plans. And believe me, they are more experts than one another. Usually and what is common, someone who is jealous of you will find faults in what you do, they are haters for no reason, they hijack your good friendship, they call you their friends, yet they gossip about your personality or achievements. These are common traits that accompany jealousy.
But beyond the common traits are what is listed below. No matter how expert or perfect your secret jealous person is (not admirer- be warned!), with what we provide you in this article, you will definitely search them out.
1. They Give You 1 To Take Two
Willingly they will offer you free advice or counsels just to know what’s on your mind. You would have thought they are angels, when they are pretenders in reality.
Most of the time, what they will only relate with you is what you have known, or what’s common. It is a strategy they use to know what’s on your mind, peradventure you share your thoughts with them, then they upstage or backstab you, then you eventually see them innovating the thoughts you’ve once shared with them.
2. Their Words Have Silent Meanings
Usually, these people don’t really mean what they are saying, they tell you things only to have your attention, to have access, to gain an entry to manipulate you. If their word for you is GO! You had better stay. Initially, they have their ways and means planned out to make you a friend. What they say to you is not what they really meant. At the long run, whey they capsize your objectives, they end up saying “I thought you had……….. I thought you would have……”
3. They Bring You More Of Bad Reports.
Watch carefully, ever since you have been together with them, they bring less good tidings and would always have bad reports to give concerning what you are planning to venture into, bringing up bad fates someone who has already tried it suffered. You would have thought they are on the look-out for you. But trust me, they will go ahead if they are in your shoes.
4. They Become An Obsession To You
Wherever you want to go, they had love to follow you. Even if they had already told you they have an appointment to keep towards your scheduled time, if they can, they will go as far in passing their appointment up just to go there with you. It is not because they love you so much, they just want to know everything about you. To know who you are meeting per time and day- -they just want to know how you are getting it done and by whom.
5. They Volunteer To Be Your P.A
Yes! They work the work of Personal Assistant for you, they will volunteer to go where you have to be all in the name of “What are we friends for”. So sooner or later, wisely, they will put you in a situation where you cannot do without them. Interestingly, it’s not that they have the whole time in the world to meet your schedules, but they have taken delight in spying on your activities and sabotage it where necessary.
BY OLA MOSES