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2/02/2020

15 Things A Narcissist Will Not Do - Don't Even Think Of It

Narcissist has that unique ability to be physically, emotionally, and psychologically abusive to everyone they meet without the person knowing they are being abused. 

They have mastered this skill to the point that the victim will not notice until they have been completely drained. Amongst all these, there are still things a narcissist will not do, and they include the things that will make them see themselves as the monsters they are. 

The things a narcissist will not do include:



1. ADMIT THEY ARE FLAWED

A narcissist believes they are perfect. They believe that they can never be wrong of mistaken at any time. This is actually what makes them different from reasonable people. A responsible human will acknowledge that they are human, and hence can make mistakes. A narcissist will never believe, let alone acknowledge that they are flawed, imperfect or prone to mistakes.

2. ADMIT THEY ARE WRONG

When arguments spring up, as they normally would in different situations, someone who is reasonable will own up to their mistakes if they are at fault. They will take responsibility for their actions and mistakes. When a narcissist is wrong or does something wrong, they would never own up to that. Instead , they will direct the attention away from themselves so they will not be blamed. They will turn the situation around in their own favor.
  

3. HAVE MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS

Try to disagree with a narcissist and you will find yourself under attack. This is due to the fact that they cannot carry on a normal conversation without inputing something about themselves. They like being the focus of attention, and hence, if the discussion is not about them, it will be filled with arguments and quarrels.

4.  SEE THINGS FROM YOUR POINT OF VIEW

When you bring opinions or ideas to a narcissist, they would not take the time to understand your logic or the inspiration behind the idea. They would simply translate it into whatever they like, and if it does not suite them, they discard it and blame you for it.

5. NEVER COMPLIMENT YOU WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING GOOD

Courtesy demands that when someone does something good, you appreciate them by commending them on a job well done. If you do, it gives a feeling of accomplishment which will drive that individual to do more. Narcissists will hardly or never commend anyone, instead they will find a way to make sure the attention comes back to them.

6. NEVER HELP YOU GROW

Narcissists are so impossible to please. While others will criticize when you are wrong, just to help you improve, narcissists will only do so for the fun of seeing you broken and not for any improvement. They are masters at destructive criticism, which does the opposite of constructive criticism. Even when you have no faults to be blamed for, they will still look for ways to make you sad and depressed.

7. GIVE UP THE REIGN OF CONTROL

No matter how loving, helpful or nice they may paint themselves to be to you, they will never let you have control over anything they are a part of, and that includes your own life. They will love to maintain control over you to the point that they can dictate who you associate with and basically every part of your life.

8. NEVER HELP YOU BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM

In non-toxic relationships, the people involved help each other become strong and confident in themselves. Occasionally, there may be times of squabbles and sarcasm, but they may be just for fun with no ulterior motives. With narcissist, every comment from them is for the purpose of tearing you down, making you heavily dependent on them for support and everything. Whenever you voice out against such, they challenge you for being too sensitive and cause you to retreat or shrink back into your shell.

9. NEVER TRULY LOVE YOU

They come at you with sweet words, telling you how much you mean to them. But knowone thing, a narcissist will never truly love you, no matter how colorful they paint their affections for you. In the end, it is always about them. There is only enough space in their hearts for one person and that is themselves.

10. SPEAK GOOD OF ANYONE

They are always the good person. Everyone else they have met is bad. This is the lies they will not hesitate to tell you once you come in contact with them. They will tell you about how they have been with terrible people who did something terrible to them. These are tactics they use to lure people in and make themselves objects of pity so you will open up to them. If you are not able to fall to their plan, they move to the next target and add you to the list of bad people.

11. NEVER LET THEMSELVES BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE

When a narcissist is involved in something and they know they are the ones at fault, they would never allow anyone to hold them accountable for it. Instead they will re-direct the attention to some other thing or point out something that someone else did before. Anything to take the attention away from them or change the subject.

12. NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE HAVE THEIR WAY

Narcissists feel much better when they are in charge of every situation. When their authority or sense of superiority is threatened, they resort to sinister means like threats or name calling, just to make you back down and so that they can go back to being the boss.
   

13. NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE GET THE PRAISE

Narcissists are such selfish individuals that they can never let anyone be at the top if they are not there themselves. They would do whatever it takes to get there first before anyone else. They take the competition seriously and fight to win, even if it means playing dirty.

14. NEVER LET PEOPLE SEE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE

The last thing a narcissist wants is to be seen as the monster they truly are. Which is why people never get to find out who they are, until they have been trapped in their clutches already. They portray the image of an honest, reliable individual and play it so well you will never suspect what goes on in their minds.

15. NEVER BELIEVE THEY ARE NARCISSISTS

How would you feel if someone told you that are a narcissist? It would not make you feel good. It could even make you upset or angry. But eventually, it would make you ask yourself some questions as to whether or not you are a narcissist. It would make you wonder if you might actually be one. A true narcissist will never believe they are narcissists. They would never reflect back on their actions because they know it to be true. They would instead, make you feel terrible for making such an observation.
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