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3/20/2020

19 Signs To Spot A Person Who Is Secretly Jealous Of You Despite Their Expertise


A lot of times, we do not know the thoughts that run through the minds of the people we hang out with as friends. Some people might pretend to like you, but deep down, they are consumed with hatred, envy, and jealousy for you.

 But how can you tell when someone is jealous of you. Here are 12 signs that will tell you that someone is secretly jealous of you.



THEY ALWAYS TRY TO COMPETE WITH YOU

When someone is jealous of you, they will always try to steal the attention from you. To them, everything is a competition and they will do everything in their power to overshadow you. They do so only to show off their success, and not necessarily for the healthy benefit of competition.





THEY WILL ALWAYS LOOK FOR WAYS TO BRING YOU DOWN IN FRONT OF OTHERS

When someone feels like you are better than they are, they see you as a threat. Turning everyone against you will make them feel better about themselves. 

They will seize every opportunity to humiliate in front of others and make themselves feel superior to you. Also, they do this to reduce your credibility in the presence of others.
   



THEY DO NOT ACCEPT YOUR SUCCESS

Your true friends will be happy at your achievements and will love to share in them. People who are secretly jealous of you may smile at your achievements at face value, but deep down in their minds, they feel you do not deserve such success. 

Oftentimes, they may not even pretend to be happy with you, they can easily dismiss it or even pretend it is not so important.
   




THEY DELIBERATELY GIVE YOU BAD ADVICE

Our friends and family are the ones we go to for advice when we are in need of advice or when we are in a fix. But when you seek advice from someone who is secretly jealous of you, one thing is certain, they will not hesitate to give you bad advice. 

They will give you advice that they know will not benefit you at all. Their aim is to limit your growth.





THEY MAKE YOU DOUBT YOURSELF

When someone is jealous of you, they are also jealous of everything you represent, and that includes your self-confidence. As long as you have your self-confidence, they know that you will not be able to falter in your pursuit of success. 

Their aim at this point is to attack that self-confidence by planting seeds of self-doubt in your mind. They make you begin to wonder if you really deserve what you have at the moment, and basically anything else that will make you doubt your abilities.





THEY TALK BEHIND YOUR BACK

They claim to be your friends and laugh and joke with you, but behind you, they say all manner of negative things about you just so they can have a negative perspective and opinion about you. 

They can even play the role of defending you when they are with you and then turn around and tell the whole world how terrible you are.





THEY FLAUNT THEIR SUCCESS IN FRONT OF YOU

People who are jealous of you will always downplay your much bigger achievements for their meager ones. 

Because they are in constant competition with you, they will always exaggerate their own achievements so they will feel a little better and relevant.




THEY GIVE YOU FALSE COMPLIMENTS

To avoid people lashing out at them for their insecurity, they praise you but we all know that those compliments are not real, and they do not mean it. 

The moment they move away from you, their disgust and envy shows, meanwhile, we all know they are not truly happy with you.




THEY ACTUALLY TRY TO IMITATE YOU

A jealous person is jealous because they want all that you have, and this includes your friends, your success etc. in order to get those things, they will act like you. 

They will do everything you do and they will try to do it better. They copy everything about you, including your fashio sense and engage in the activities you engage in.





THEY ARE HIGHLY CRITICAL OF YOU

It is very possible that everyone who easily criticises your every move is jealous of you. We all know that criticism is meant to correct you and prevent you from doing the wrong thing over again, 

However, when it comes everytime you meet a particular person, there is a greater chance that that person is actually jealous of you. They are simply looking for ways to bring you down.
   



THEY HATE YOU FOR NO REASON

Jealousy comes when you see something in someone and you wish it were yours. A lot of people may not understand, but when someone is jealous of you, it is so much easier for them to hate you. And this is common when you become more successful than they are. 

When someone hates you for no good reason, it is a clear indication that they are just jealous of you.
   




THEY STICK AROUND FOR BENEFITS

A true friend will stay with you through it all. They will make you understand what it truly means to have a friend who cares about you. But a person who is jealous of you will only stick around long enough for them to get what they want. 

All they do is take and take from you, in an effort to be like you. When they are satisfied with what they have taken, they leave you.

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