Many times, you must have observed and take note of some Methuselah-kind of courtships; they have been together for a long time but they seem not to go beyond what they’ve been practising ever since they’ve been together. Here is why they are delaying their courtship not to lead to marriage yet, as some are beyond them and others are caused by self.
1. Aries
Aries struggle to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he is failing to learn and adjust: S-he repeats error and does not bother to get them fixed. And so his or her partner is afraid to take Aries to the altar since no change(s) or development from him or her yet.
2. Taurus
Taurus struggle to level up his (her) relationship status because of being poor in decision making: S-he is easily confused and do not know what s-he really wants or needs. S-he can be easily misled, and doubts (his) commitment he has for his partner. She takes time to choose one out of many admirers.
If s-he has made up his mind to go with one, then another admirer shows up, s-he finds it difficult to go on with his earlier decision because s-he would want to consider the new admirer as well.
3. Gemini
Gemini struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he living extravagant life: S-he has high taste; so rich in quality of time. You must know now that a Gemini as a fiancé/fiancée is on the lookout to get a higher grade of yourself. They want the best and they find it difficult to quench their thirst. So in this case, they are the one that delay their partners from walking them down to the aisle with some filthy and lame excuses.
4. Cancer
Cancer struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he does not know how to let go: His (her) past relationships keep haunting them and they find it difficult to commit in the present one they found themselves. So they slow things down intentionally thinking about the ex-partners and relationship thinking ‘what if s-he shows up again………’ (They tend to buy time for their pasts). And better still, the fear of the breakdowns they experienced now torture them.
5. Leo
Leo struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he is impatient: they love to quicken and hasten processes and decisions. Most of the time, things rushed always end up being burnt- this is their love story.
6. Virgo
Virgo struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he is obsessed in a particular thing: They are trapped in their obsessions (what they secretly love and desires), if they don’t have them yet, those things become bumps on the highways that slow the progress of their love relationship; and in this case, the bumps are cautioning them.
7. Libra
Libra struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he is not bold enough to make the move: they don’t have the balls to go after what they really want in their choice of partner. They know them, they see them around always, but they wouldn’t make attempt.
And it happens that if others (those that they don’t have goose-bumps for) come around, they turn them down.
8. Scorpio
Scorpio struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he believes love only exists in an imaginary world: They still don’t believe love is real, so how do you want them commit to what is not real to them? They don’t actually believe in it though.
9. Sagittarius
Sagittarius struggle to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he is influenced by higher power: The control is not in their hand, they do surrender to higher bodies of authority, and what these higher bodies of authority say is final to them (higher powers: parent, best friends, religious mentor, etc.) peradventure they say NO to the progress of their relationship, then Sagittarians become helpless to move on.
10. Capricorn
Capricorn struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he fears the effects of love: They fear heartbreaks, disappointments, hurts and guilt, they do not how they will cope if those things eventually happen, so they rather don’t commit to such extent that they would feel hurt.
11. Aquarius
Aquarians generally struggle to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he lacks interest in people: you must have done a hardwork for you to impress Aquarius. Aquarians take so much time to really develop interest in people (a year or more). So you can now see why walking them down the aisle is a herculean task.
12. Pisces
Pisces struggles to level up his (her) relationship status because s-he is entrapped in dream world: what takes most time, I mean Pisces’ quality time is the ‘world of imagination’. They can’t stop dreaming things out, they dwell more on the inside, so a distance is created between them and the outer world. They hardly know you are even around for them.
By Ola Moses
