Yes, your partner did something that may have led you to break up with him. But was it really the best thing to do? Do you think you could have tried to make it work instead? In other words, do you think your breaking up was a mistake? One very bad thing about this feeling, is that it only comes after the breakup and not before. This means you start to feel bad and terrible after you have gone through the breakup process. The main issue is, what if the breakup was a mistake?
Here are 7 signs that will let you know.
1. He Genuinely Cared For And Loved You
Maybe he did something wrong that led you to break up with him, but besides that, if he has always loved you, cared for you and was there when you needed him all the time, they maybe your breaking up with him was a mistake. You could have tried to sort things out with him instead of letting go.
2. Your Life Turned Out Worse Without Him
If you have suddenly felt a downward spiral after your breakup with him, then it may have been a mistake letting him go. Perhaps when you two were together, he made your life better. He may have done things for you that no one else has ever done in a positive way, and he also pushed you to be better. And now that you both are done, you feel as if your life is a mess. If you do feel this way, then you should not have broken up after all.
3. You Feel Lonely And Hollow
Yes you are meant to feel lonely after a breakup, but only for a while. You are supposed to feel better and move on after some time. But when you don’t feel better, even after a long time, or you feel like your life is empty without him, then it is a bad sign that you should not have let them go in the first place.
4. Everyone Around You Knew And Liked Him
Assuming you have a nosy or critique family that seems to want to know everything you’re doing or anyone you’re hanging out with. And even they liked your partner, and they are usually not the ones to be easily impressed by someone else. This could be a bad sign that you should not have broken up with him either. If your own family thought he was a great person, they maybe you made a mistake breaking up.
5. Your Friends Liked Him Too
If you break up with your partner and your genuine friends are mad at you for doing that, then you are wrong for breaking up. This is because, they may have seen something you did not. They may have seen that he truly loved you and cared for you, so breaking up with him caused them to think you may have lost your sanity. If this happens, you probably made a mistake.
6. You Haven’t Met Anyone Else Like Him
It is expected that after a breakup, you move on with your life and possibly find love in someone else. But when you are unable to find someone better than he is, then you should not have let him go. If you become unfortunate and do not find someone like him or even better than he is, then you must understand that you should not have broken up in the first place.