Like everything in life, the years and moments go by, the paths deviate and our (love) stories are written for some time in different places with these three different people.
1. The Players
People in this category are the ones that will exploit and cultivate your fallow heart in to the choice of ridges they desire. They romance your innocent heart and add some curves to your life, they are players that will open your eyes and teach you many unknowns in the hard way.
You will find it hard why they chose to be like this with you – think hard about it and you still won’t be able to search out why they would take your innocence for granted. That is who they are, they catch fun with hearts when they feel like.
One thing you need to know about these players is that there is someone in their lives (a romantic partner) they are accountable to, that they don’t play. But in your case, they play you. Meeting them will inform you of some street-wise knowledge, you will tend to know the name, meaning and language of love on the street. They give you some experiences to learn from, they put your love to test and trial. Falling in love with them will teach you to love better, and will also teach you forgiveness.
Ability to forgive yourself for being naïve to be used, and ability to forgive your partner. The hard lessons they give you will help you to land softly in your subsequent relationships.
2. The So-so
These ones are different from the players. They love you and you love them, yet something is missing. It is the kind of relationship you have that you can’t explain why things don’t work out between both of you, all you could ever say is “it was not meant to be” when you try to find reasons why it didn’t work out. You couldn’t give yourself tangible reasons, sometimes, you might want to nail the reason down to immaturity or some other reasons, but deep down inside you, you know that is not the real reason you got separated. They are there to introduce you to the large love life you will live; they are your short homestay lovers that bring you closer to the third kind of people you will fall in love with.
You had thought they are the one; your last bus-stop but it is only a stopover. The chemistry is there, yet something essential that can’t be placed is missing. People of this category will become your ex-lovers without bad blood between you unlike the so called players.
3. The Dream Lover
This category of people are the one you eventually married, they might not look it at the beginning because of the standards you set for yourself. When you fall in love with them, you will feel the presence of what is missing despite the chemistry you had with your ex-lover in the category of ‘so-so’.
Though you don’t have everything at the beginning, but you have the feeling that something huge will soon happen. You don’t know how to explain it – but you see the future clearer than the previous stage.
