Narcissists and sociopaths as persons with antisocial personality disorder, exhibiting antisocial behaviour that usually is the result of social and environmental factors in their formative years will always leave their footprints behind on sands of life, it will take a remedy like whirlwind or heavy rainfall to be done with their footprints.
Below Are What Sociopaths And Narcissists Will Cause You After They’re Gone:
1. Feeling Low
Even after you have survived the scare of a sociopath and narcissist, their shadow will still cause you to doubt yourself once in a while. It is so because they have trampled on your self-esteem over time, smeared your honor and mishandled your dignity. Since your core values are traumatized, those memories still haunt as they cause you to suffer low self-esteem as a result of what has happened in the past.
It is like your battery meter of self-respect is low, and you can’t stop doubting your person and capability even when you have everything ready for you.
2. Feeling Insecure
A person that has been maltreated and mishandled by a sociopath or narcissist will be lacking in emotional maturity and security. They feel danger with constant feeling of suspicion that the afflictions they once suffered will repeat themselves again.
Fear is present in their day to day living, so they still suffer emotionally.
3. Feeling of Betrayal
A person that has been through with a sociopath/narcissist will have a great issues with trust. You are afraid the person you are dealing is a sly, so you are never at peace and you are always worried. You have opened your heart in the past and your heart was shattered into pieces as a result, so you would rather lock up your heart than to enjoy some things and relationships that come with risk.
You will pass up your happiness for some chances you are afraid to take on. So as a result of this, you have your regrets that could have been avoided if not for the fear that you will be betrayed and stabbed in the back again.
4. Feeling of Obsession
You are afraid to lose precious things in your life, things that have happened to you in the past has given you enough reasons to fear you will lose what you cherish. You tend to be clingy and its adverse effect would be your overreliance on a particular individual, you would not be able to do without a certain person and you might have to put up with their excesses because you are obsessed with them like they are your life giver.
You do this because you need a shadow of someone you can call your own that will give you a feeling of protection at least, in fear of the unpleasant exposure you had.
5. Feeling of Regret
After you must have met with sociopaths and narcissists and they are long gone, they leave you with feeling of regret that exposed your poor decision. You keep thinking you could have done better, that you could have managed the situation better. The thoughts of many things you could have done but you didn’t do … the thoughts of many things you could have said but didn’t say will keep ringing in your head.
You had wished you could turn back the hands of clock to undo and redo some certain things.
