LESS TALK, LESS CONTRIBUTION
At a time like this, they would offer less at the decision-making table, no input, no more energy that do sparkles on their face while contributing to the cause at hand. Also, they don’t bring matter to you, and if at all you take matter to them, after talking about it in few lines, they would not follow up, to ask about the aftermath of the discussion you held, not until you revert back to them. They are losing interest in you, the bond you once shared is thinning already.
DEPRIVATION OF ROMANTIC TOUCHES
Not even about sex this time around: You both have been enjoying giving yourself kiss, pat, hair massage, holding hands, hugging and few others, but nowadays, things are not how they used to be, you no longer enjoy touching her romantically, because of the cold face and gesture you will get in return
CONSTANTLY, THEY SLIDE INTO MOOD SWING
Some would still give you the benefit of quality time, they would still call to meet with you, however, don’t dwell on it and take note of their presence when you meet one another. At first, they may be full of spirit, being with you. Before you could go deeper in the positive vibe mood, they put on another face that is stressing. Ask them what the matter is, the answer you’ll get is “nothing”. Often, they get lost in thought while with you, many things on-going in their minnd about what you share, that is now fading away. Maybe it is not their fault, they can’t help the situation too. It’s just that they no longer feel what they felt for you. It is pertinent to say here that not all exhibits this attitude, however, it is bound to take place.
THEY WOULD RATHER COME TO YOU THAN YOU COMING TO THEM
isn’t it funny? They don’t want you close in their environment again, they would turn down your chances to meet them in their house or a friend’s and would make it up with you by coming down to your place. Maybe they don’t want people to see you two together again, maybe. They are trying not to involve you again in their emotional and familar environment, no more close ties with people on their sides. They are trying to keep privacy and set the tow line, but a carefree lover wouldn’t know this, then your once open-love relationship is becoming a secret affair. Isn’t this true?
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If your partner does any of the 4 itemised points above, with the regular ‘I no longer care attitudes: Ignoring phone calls/chats/SMS, Quality time Strike, Less Compliment/Appreciation,…. as talked about earlier, then they are waving you good-bye already. However it is still not totally over for you if you observe them, let’s say you observe them at the earliest possible time, you can sit your partner down, talk about the recent changes about them you discovered, handle the case carefully, with maturity [be you male or female], talk things through, at the end of everything, it is either you have a mutual agreement to walk away from one another or to have a safe landing as you both try correcting each other’s wrongs for a better love’s experiences. So, don’t assume totally, try one more time and air your doubts and concerns.
Thank you.
