Royal Ascot never fails to deliver elegance, excitement, and endearing glimpses into the lives of the royal family. This year, amid the spectacle of fashion and racing, one subtle moment stood out—highlighting the deepening bond between Carole Middleton, mother of the Princess of Wales, and her daughter-in-law, Alizee Thevenet.
Their warm and genuine connection has sparked thoughtful discussion about the unique support Alizee could provide Princess Kate as she gradually steps into her future role as Queen.
Renowned Royal Commentator and Chartered Psychologist Dr. Arthur Cassidy offered exclusive insights into this emerging dynamic. “First impressions are powerful—especially between a mother and daughter-in-law,” he explained. Dr. Cassidy emphasized that when James Middleton introduced Alizee to the family, that initial encounter laid the groundwork for enduring trust and mutual respect.

He noted that Carole Middleton is always immaculately presented—”elegant, chic, and subtly sophisticated”—a visual impression that has helped shape her bond with Alizee and their shared presence at high-profile events.
Dr. Cassidy observed that Carole’s body language signals warmth and optimism—not just in relation to Alizee, but in how she, alongside Michael, Catherine, Pippa, and James, is nurturing a close-knit, supportive family environment. “Carole displays adaptability and emotional intelligence, which are crucial in fostering trust and resilience within a modern royal family,” he said.
As Carole and Alizee watched the races side-by-side from the royal box, Dr. Cassidy noted a striking emotional rapport. “Alizee’s lowered gaze, soft smile, and upright posture convey deference, warmth, and genuine interest—a subtle display of mutual respect and emotional harmony.”
He went further, suggesting that Alizee possesses the emotional awareness and strength to integrate smoothly into the Middleton circle. “She shows the potential to be a quiet source of hope and stability for Princess Kate—perhaps even a steadying influence as Kate navigates her gradual return to public life and her future as Queen.”
Reflecting on a recent balcony photo from the event, Dr. Cassidy also highlighted a poignant expression on Carole’s face—a “semi-closed lip smile” which, he believes, may subtly reflect thoughts of her daughter’s absence. “It’s a private, concealing gesture,” he explained, “one that reveals Carole’s understanding of the delicate emotional challenges Kate faces during her recovery.”
Ultimately, Dr. Cassidy concluded, Carole’s empathy and Alizee’s growing presence point to a strong, supportive network quietly forming around the Princess of Wales—one that will be vital as she steps forward into the next chapter of her royal journey.